How To Find Out If He Is Cheating

When it comes to your relationship, you have to trust your instincts if something doesn’t feel right. No matter what advice your friends give you, what blogs you are reading or even what your mother tells you, listening to your gut is the only way you are going to get the truth.

It’s easy to overlook things, to tell yourself that it can’t be, that he would never do that to you, but the reality is that if you have a feeling that he is cheating, then he just might be. However, before jumping to conclusions, you are going to want to look at things objectively. It could make for a really terrible fight to accuse your partner of something so heinous and then end up being wrong.

In order to help you figure out if he is being unfaithful, use the points below to see if any apply to your current situation. If any reinforce your suspicions, you might be having a an unpleasant discussion with your man tonight, to say the least. 

The Sex is Completely Different Now

Although it may be true that if your sex life is suddenly non-existent, then your partner may be looking somewhere else, the same may also be true if all of a sudden things are way more spicy than they ever were before. If out of nowhere there is a drastic change in your sex life, this could be due to his two-timing. Some men find sneaking around to be a turn on, and I don’t mean sneaking around with you. If he is getting down with you and another woman on the side, the idea of him being a player might be what’s getting him so worked up in the bedroom.

He Suddenly Has His Phone and Computer On Lock

Wanting privacy is one, but guarding your phone and computer with your life is another. I have never felt it was ok for either partner to check the other’s emails, texts and social media without asking, and having these things password protected is completely normal. But if he never, EVER leaves his devices unattended, suddenly has lock codes on everything and freaks out if you try to borrow his phone just to check the Yelp review on that new restaurant you wanted to try, then there may be a problem. Like I said, it’s normal to want your privacy, but hiding things is another story.

He’s Taking Better Care of Himself

Remember when you guys first started dating and you wouldn’t be caught dead without your legs shaved or your makeup perfectly applied? And he always had his hair amazingly styled and dressed immaculately on your dates? Well, if you start noticing him dressing to the nines when he is going out on guy night or taking extra time to prepare before grabbing a drink with his brother, you might want to think back to those early stages of your relationship. He was trying to impress you back then, and he might be trying to impress someone else now. 

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