Wise Ways to Put Everything into a Clearer Focus
By Sandy Schroeder
Most of sometimes wonder about what we do, and what really counts. If you occasionally tally up your wins and losses, you may be pleased, or still looking. Recently I read an article in Lifehack.com that hit some of the high notes that seem to apply to all of us.
Little Bits of Wisdom
You cannot please everyone – If you try to, you simply risk losing yourself. It is so easy to slip into a willing-to-please routine. When you succeed, everyone’s delighted. But in the process, you may be knocking yourself flat, and losing sight of the big picture. Step back, and choose your mission, focusing on the ones that mean the most to you. You won’t please everyone, but life may be a lot more meaningful for you.
Doing everything 100 percent is unlikely – But becoming better at what you do, and who you are, is quite possible and likely to be rewarding. I know a few people who believe if you can do 90 percent, you can do 100 or even 110 oercent. But the push that it takes to hit that perfect output every time may be more than it is worth. If it works for you to shoot for 100 percent, go for it. But being less stressed, and consistently notching 90 percent, might be wiser. And for what it's worth, no one can give 110 percent; you can't give more effort than you have (but it still sounds good to say you gave 110 percent).
Happiness is not just waiting to be found – The most richly satisfying moments really come from where you are, and what you do, and when you recognize you are there. People with much wealth and many achievements are not always the happiest people in the room. But people, who understand what they have and cherish it, may be. The happiest people I have known were not the richest. But they knew who they were and really liked what they were doing.
Actions usually beat words – It’s really not what someone tells you, but what they do that counts. Make sure you match your actions to your words. Then, the next time you say something, you will be believed.
Expiration dates are usually not known – Live every moment. I have a dear friend who always says, “You only go around once, make sure you do it right.” When I see him he is usually laughing, and totally involved.
Memories may outweigh achievements. – Awards are wonderful, but as people age, the really good memories may count for more. Choose your battles and try for both.
You probably have other bits of wisdom that help you stay focused. Keep those in mind, and enjoy the ride.
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